At the very heart of the desire to femulate for some of us, lies the desire to become entirely female, if only perhaps on an imaginative plane . And what better way to become that, then to have a fine mind stretching, body aching, throat tightening female orgasm, which i shall call an Oh!gasm. But is it possible? I have been to the other side, and I bring joyful tidings for all the crossdreamers, femulators, trans this and trans that transformers. It is possible.
The secret to the acheiving a female experience of excitement and Oh!gasm is simpler than you would think, and of course it is available on the internet if you know where to look. But where would I look you ask?
Well girls love to talk, and they don't mind one bit talking about masturbation and even helping out the girl here and there who has been completely head twisted and confused by the orgasmic ideologies of our crass commercial and phallocentric world. But I am going to spare you all that research (if you want to be spared it) and lay out the essentials. It was explained to me by a Lady friend on new years eve a year ago, but for some of us it takes some time to fully understand.
The key is to realize that male and female anatomy are not all that different.
So how do you attain the oh-gasm! that you have been craving?
Simple follow the instructions for girls.... make the proper adjustments where necessary.
Step 1 - (for boys only) Feminize!
I have been feminizing my sex parts for some time. In my case, I as a normal practice tuck my testes up into the place where they descended ( if this is new to you see this simple explanation. (don't tape) . The male member is folded over and between the legs, and if you don't have a pair, get a pair of TIGHT silky panties to hold it all together. Now you should appear properly feminine down there.
Don't forget your breasts while feminizing. As my posts make obvious, i have used hormones to feminize my breasts, and that works great!, but if you haven't, get yourself a sexy bra with underwire so that you can push them up a bit. Bra and panties are all you need. Nighties, corsets etc are optional. Make yourself girly and sexy.
Step 2 Lie in bed and bring a friend...
No not that kind of friend silly, my new friend miss lelo. If you don't have a vibrator you are going to need one. Vibrators are optional for girls, but not for you. Lie back and begin to fantasize, put yourself in a nice sexy place. Optional for you and the girls is a dildo. That is for if you want penetration. Penetration is not necessary for oh!gasm. It's optional. I think at least the first few times that you will find it distracting.
Step 3 Set vibrator to low, situate it and turn it on.
Situate it... Here's where you need to experiment for best results. You have created for yourself an imaginary vagina, by tucking yourself into your sexy panties. You don't have vaginal lips, but you do have a nice big clitoris down and back, as well as the sensitive regions of the t'aint, and anus. I don't recommend direct clitoral stimulation. Situate it somewhere nearby. Once you turn it on, lie back and feel it. Your vagina, your thighs, you whole pubic area... see how sexy and turned on they feel. You are not a boy... You may feel tightening. It is just blood rushing to your aroused vagina and clitoris... just continue to feel how your arousal is distributed throughout your loins..if it wants to spread up through your stomach and down your legs... let it...feel it.. Do you feel shivery? You are on the right path.
Step 4 Begin to explore rhythmic contractions
You need to know how to do Kegel exercises. It is simply exercising the muscles that control urination. These are the same muscles that control vaginal contractions. If you need further instruction see internet. You have been practicing haven't you? Simply contract ..release... contract... release... lying there with your hands just across you chest ..below your breasts, or down caressing yourself. You should be feeling pretty good ...starting to. If you have chosen to use a dildo..you can insert it.. but remember that the vaginal muscles are not the same as the one's in the anus.. Feel the rhythm... You are directing energy in. Breathing deeply and bringing more and more into your vagina...feel the sensations enter into you. You are she.. you are the goal, the end point.. drawing it in.. Do you feel just a little like sighing? Do you feel a little like panting? Well do so... Make sweet noises honey. Feel yourself getting more and more excited... just pick that control up a notch.
Step 5 Start to improvise... Find what works for you.
You want to continue to build those sensations that you are having with each contraction to a fine crescendo. In my case, i now call in the heavy artillery, the big guns! That's right samantha and jennifer. (no! not menage a trois.. those are pet names for my titties) Touching them... and finally touching the nipples... For me, touching the nipples feels like touching my pulsing vagina.. The two are connected somewhere, and as i really start to get.. wriggly and jiggly, my nipples will get so very hard. At this point I am pretty much.. ready to climb the ladder.. maybe play a little with the position of the vibrator, raise the intensity... immerse myself deeply in fantasy... up up up... and then feel crazy movement and sensation... happening to me. and then relax and come back down.. Oh!gasm.... not orgasm.
There is no question that starting out, there is a strong likelihood that putting the vibrator on the clitoris, and just raising the level, just letting yourself go will result in orgasm, sticky panties, and a nap. This is not the desired goal however. Having a big orgasm while your penis is confined is fine, but it is just one more way that you can get off as a male. It will result in the typical male afterglow.." Can you get me a beer honey?"
But if you avoid it, then you will have an Oh!gasm, you will be right as rain, filled with energy... ready to have another!
This is my gift to those whom it may benefit on this fine St. Patrick's Day.
Slainte.
